The power of discourse
    Recently, I saw this a parable: There are a group of frogs in the woods walk through time, of which two fell into a deep pit. Fortunately, the frog who had gathered to Kengbian. When to see a deep pit, the pit outside of the frog told Nazhi desperate to bounce outside the frog: Do not in vain, and you just jumped to disagree. A frog that the other frogs say, gave up and finally fell to the ground dead. The other frog continued efforts to jumping. Other frog continued to kept telling him not to make the task harder. But the frog harder. He was finally out of pit outside. The original frog was deaf, he has that other frogs, and then encourage him to jump out.     
    Carefully taste it is fable, I am deeply inspired by: Sometimes the power of language was so great! If anyone said about the plight of people who will have an impact. The plight of a people be encouraged, it will revive, survive the storm. If a person in dire straits heard of that pessimism, malicious words, for he will be a devastating blow. The teacher's discourse effect for the development of students is particularly important. The teachers to pick up the recognition of weapons, to enable students to taste the joy of being recognized and establish confidence.     
    Educators Diesterweg once said: "Teaching is not the essence of art to teach, but to inspire, awaken and inspire." Qing thinkers and educators Yen Yuan said: "The number of sub-10 before, not as good as a long sub-awards . "True education is not based on irony, sarcasm, harsh language and insults, there are also not a single educator to rely on punishment and sanctions to achieve the goal of education. So please, treat the child as faltering start, full of hope and expectations, to appreciate each and every student into the heart, so that the students encountered difficulties and setbacks, even 1:00, but also the courage to escape from the "pit."

Not every root can be made of bamboo flute
    Was a child, one summer, my family came to a carpenter, good Chuixiao played flute and a half months in my home, did their homework. He taught me to play the flute, but could not bear to give me his flute, he said it was their loved ones left behind.
    Frustration, I went to the mountains cut down a bamboo, asking him to give me a flute. His wry smile: "It's not every root can be made of bamboo flute." I think he lied to me. Flanagan bamboo suitable thickness, thickness uniformity, bamboo is not obvious, smooth texture that I pick and choose only phase, and on what basis it can not do a flute? I looked at his hands the flute, there is no strange. He must be - not to the child's words as words.    
    One day, I met a walk in the street of the village Kushido who sell flutes. His bag inside containing a lot of flute, with his body shaking, gently touch each other to issue specific to the sound of bamboo. Perhaps the flute itself gloss attracted me, and maybe he walked the street blowing the vicissitudes of temperament attracted artists like me, may be thought of so many years and until now was not touched the flute, do not know will not be playing, let him give I picked one.
    Neighbor is a retired music teacher, I appreciate him holding a flute. Read carefully the elderly, the actually say that this is a little use of the flute, so that children can be playing when the toys. "It is the flute so much better to say that it is a drilled hole bamboo, he said," It's not every root can be made of bamboo flute. "If the elderly, then a carpenter with the same year, which in the end, what untold stories behind it?
   I took the Zhezhi flute, taking a closer look, and always do not see what was wrong. Old explained that this is the use of bamboo that year, and can not stand playing. I am even more confused: the year of bamboo, how it? Is it put the old, and come back to do? What things are not always fresh and the well? Seeing what I was confused elderly people, and then remarked: "You do not know, those who used to do the bamboo flute are needed through the winter calendar, because bamboo have grown too lax in the spring and summer, and only to the winter, the temperature suddenly cold every day 'Feng Yan onslaught frost's sword', and its texture can become more closely and firm, and whether you left-right wind blowing, light played urgent played, it is not different now, not out of tune. while the annual bamboo, has not been frost snow invasion, although a much longer look good, but I used to make flutes, they bite the bullet, and not only sound bad lot, but also there were minor cracks, insect borers that also like bamboo. "
    I understood why. Then a carpenter with experience in this area, but lost for this particular reason. He also did not perfunctory words of a child.
    Not every root can be made of bamboo flute, because not every bamboo stems are willing to experience winter bitterly cold, wind and frost, rain and snow, not every bamboo stems can be hard texture, character valuable, in stubborn silence at metamorphosis, in flesh and blood inside the bones wire wire strands of all sublimation, when the read it, cherish it were not put it down, blow off steam, such as blue, it will sound tons are now vibrant flow of long, have a long life and never change by the United States.

Respect for the position
To respect other people have different positions.
Be called "national treasures" generation master Ji Xianlin, never Yilaomailao. Every time visitors came to visit, he is early in the case of hat and clothes neatly in the book before the ride is good, heads held high, chin slightly adduction, sitting orderly to end is correct. In his view, chest sitting is a kind of respect for the guests. In the guests left, he must have sent out the door, say good-bye good-bye.
One day in 1995, Bai Yansong for Ji Xianlin do "scholar interview." At that time, Ji Xianlin sitting business cards ready to dig in the Bai Yansong handed him the moment, he stood up, bent over waiting for, so that the presence of all the people moving. There was praise too many people, the master is the master, a simple gesture, a few people can always do this?
Time, the United States outstanding master of humor, Chaplin was about to perform on stage performances, an enthusiastic audience suddenly reminded him: "Master, you forgot to button the shirt buttons." Chaplin Yi Zheng, quickly expressed his thanks and quickly Fasten the button. When the audience who walked away, he also quietly untied the button. This scene is just one reporter saw, and asked Chaplin: "Do you do so why bother?" Chaplin replied: "I want to play is a long-distance trekkers, release the button to better reflect his hard Lawton, the audience will leave life-like image. but to remind others of goodwill, we should reward the attitude of gratitude, to respect him! "
For misunderstanding, we sometimes timely explanation, sometimes with disdain, while Chaplin was with a grateful heart to accept it. Their lowered position, does not distinguish, did not fight back, and even thank them for their concern, not that kind of respect do?
Respect for others, there may be different ways, different position. Whether sitting or standing, is to thank, or put your own, can highlight sparkling personality.

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